5 Stealth Ways To Get Close

(So he balks at the words couple time?  Not with these hibernating tricks)

 

01.  DO A ZEN DOUBLE HUG
            
Get supersnug with your anti-cuddle poster child and de-stress him with this pose from Sue Benton, coauthor of Chi Fitness.  Sit on the floor against the couch with him between your legs (oh yeah, he'll love that!) and facing away from you.  Bend your knees.  Wrap your arms around him and put your hands on his shoulders.  Slowly inhale together.  Then exhale and stretch his shoulders towards your chest.  Repeat.

02.  BE HIS NAUGHTY DISH
            
Ahh, fondue.  With cheese dripping all over the place and limited utensils, it's a man's dream meal.  Try this recipe from Fiona Smith, auther of Fondue:  Boil 1/2 cup of dry white wine in a cast-iron pot.  Reduce to simmer, and throw in 1 1/2 cups each of grated Gruyere and Swiss cheese, and 2 tsps. flour.  Stir until creamy.

03.  BLOW EACH OTHER'S MINDS
            
Wrap up together in a cozy blanket and do (okay, fine, attempt to do) the Sunday crossword puzzle.  Whoever drums up the magic final word gets to request a dirty something that might not be found in a dictionary.

04.  ESCAPE THE FAMILY FEUD
            
Spending Thanksgiving together?  Slip away for a private post-dinner stroll when the relatives get unbearably wacko...or Grandma asks how much longer you two will be "living in sin".  You'll have priceless material to laugh over, plusthe brisk outside air will feel fabulous after being cooped up all day...and it'll give you a prime opportunity to cling to each other for warmth.

05.  CURL UP FOR A CATNAP
            
If your guy partied the night before, you'll have no problem convincing him to join you in a Saturday-afternoon siesta to reenergize for the evening ahead.  Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of Naughty Secrets, suggests slumbering in something he'll love to touch (like a satiny nightie) and spooning him awake.  To do:  Simply wiggle your behind to stroke his money spot.  Talk about a wake-up call!

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